Maybe you've tried sticker charts, timeouts, canned scripts, or something else. And sometimes those things seem to work, at least for a while, but then you find yourself facing that same behavior or something entirely new that takes it place.
But what if there is more going on than what you can see on the surface?
Your child's behavior gives you a window into how your child is doing on the inside: developmentally, emotionally, and more.
When we understand what's happening behind the behavior, we can respond differently. Not by ignoring unacceptable behaviors or lowering our expectations, but by helping our children develop the internal capacity they need to to handle frustration, disappointment, limits, change, and other challenges more successfully.
Behavioral interventions attempt to shape and mold behaviors so that we see more of the desirable behaviors and less of the unacceptable or undesirable behaviors. Play Strong Kids takes a different approach by addressing the underlying conditions within the child that led to the behaviors in the first place.
After these internal conditions are addressed, the worrying behaviors resolve as a natural outcome. This is the inside-out approach of Play Strong Kids.
The Child Behind the Behavior Parent Program shows you why your child is struggling and what to do about it, with personalized guidance from Dr. Jen along the way.
A simple “no” sets off a meltdown that lasts half the evening. The school keeps calling. Your child calls himself stupid over a spelling mistake, or refuses to try anything new. Bedtime, homework, and getting out the door all turn into negotiations. You've read the books and listened to the podcasts, and in the moment, you still aren't sure what to do.
This program was made for parents in exactly that place. What makes this approach different? A child's behavior is a window. When you know what's driving a meltdown, a power struggle, or a wave of worry, you can respond to the cause instead of chasing each new symptom. That's how behavior changes in a lasting way, and it's how children grow more confident, resilient, and connected along the way.
A complete 10-week course filled with video lessons and other resources that walk you through the building blocks of addressing the conditions within your child that are leading to the concerning behaviors you are seeing. Each week builds on the last, and you can move through it at your own pace.
Resources you'll use every day
You'll receive a 100+ page Parent Companion Guide with weekly checklists and reflection pages, the Special Play Time Handbook, the full guided journal, weekly workbook pages, and a self-assessment to track your progress.
Personal guidance from Dr. Jen
Throughout the program, you'll work directly with Dr. Jen through individual meetings and personalized feedback. She'll help you apply everything to your child specifically, so you always know what your specific child needs and what to do next.
From families who have worked with Dr. Jen
“Our toddler was hostile, extremely defiant, and had frequent, explosive meltdowns. Every day felt like a battle. Dr. Jen's parent program was a game-changer for us. If you're struggling with a challenging toddler, we can't recommend her enough.”
Bobby, father of a two-year-old
“My son is able to recover from disappointment much more quickly, is showing more empathy, and I'm able to reason with him in ways I couldn't before. Overall, he's a much more balanced and happy kid.”
Katie, mother of a six-year-old
“Dr. Jen's feedback was specific, personalized and tailored to our family and child's goals.”
Lauren, mother of a ten-year-old
“Not only have we seen tremendous growth and improvement in our son, from confidence, communication, and how he navigates his emotions, but we have also grown in the way we interact with him and support him as parents. The tools and perspective we gained have positively impacted our entire family dynamic.”
Niall, father of a four-year-old
The Child Behind the Behavior Parent Program with Personalized Support
The course, with one year of access
10 weeks of video lessons with Dr. Jen
The Parent Companion Guide, your weekly workbook with activities for practical application
Research pages that explain the science behind each week's topics
Interactive practice scenarios
Practical help for real-life situations
Resources
The Special Play Time Handbook
A complimentary copy of the companion Guided Journal (typically sold separately)
Personal support from Dr. Jen
Three private consultations to talk through what's happening with your child and family, ask questions, work through real-life scenarios, and get individualized advice tailored to your child
Feedback on three Special Play Time recordings. Submit a 30-minute recording, then go over Dr. Jen's observations together during your consultations, including your strengths, areas to grow, and specific tips for your next play time
Two-parent benefit. When two caregivers take part, Dr. Jen gives feedback to both parents at each of the three feedback opportunities
You deserve a peaceful home
Learn what's driving your child's challenging or worrying behaviors, and how to address those underlying factors so your child can become more confident, emotionally regulated, and better able to navigate life's challenges.
Not sure yet?
If you're not yet sure this program is the right fit, or you'd like more or less support from Dr. Jen, we'd love to help you figure out what fits best for your specific family. Reach out by email at drjen@playstrongkids.com, or call or text 877-720-4436. We're happy to chat in writing, or set up a call if you prefer.